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week 2, Mondy, some variety

06 Tuesday May 2014

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Monday we went back to downtown but we walked a different route to a different coffeeshop. Petunia started off feeling pretty good I think, and then we had a few curb approach issues and that sort of dampened her spirit a bit. I spent time at the coffeeshop, a starbucks, with the nurse and just relaxed.

 

Keith took me for the walk back tot he center, and we tried the head collar on Petunia to see if ut would handle her sniffing a bit. It did help a lot actually. But I felt like I made a lot of mistakes, and I felt pretty discouraged when we got back. It’s hard to explain except to say that I feel llike I’m not communicating with her as well as I should be at this time, somehow not motivating her enough, not giving her something she needs. I honestly don’t know if Petunia is bonding to me or coming to like me. She’s working for me, but I’m not sure if she’s doing it because she has to or wants to.

 

I didn’t do the afternoon route since we had a night route last night, so I just hung out in the center and relaxed. When we got back to campus, April gave my teammate and me a lesson on getting our dogs into airplane seats. I tried making that a sort of game and again Petunia was having a blast. She was wagging and play bowing, eager for her kibble  rather her high value rewards, and was obviously enjoying herself. What is the difference between that and everyday guidework?

 

I played with her outside for a little bit so she knows I’m fun as well as the one she works for.

 

last night was the night route. I was feeling pretty bad physically, so we just took a short walk. Petunia did great! Other than a slightly faster pull, her guidework was almost perfect and we felt more like a team than we have some other days. I liked it. But not enough to do the optional route on Thursday!

 

Today is traffic checs and vet visits and I don’t know what else.

 

I’m not feeling well, both my irritating stomach issue and my arthritis. So, keep me in yur thoughts and prayers today. stomach makes me not want to eat but the work I’m doing really needs me to eat, and it’s a vicious circle. I’m tired of feeling sick!

day? I forget, so saturday

04 Sunday May 2014

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chocolate, guide dog training, malls, shopping

I think I forgot to write yesterday. sorry. seems to be a pattern of mine in guide dog training, as the days go by and the fatigue sets in, writing eases up.

 

Yesterday was a fun day. In the morning, we went back to Portland and I worked in a mall. Great place for practicing turns and obstacle/pedestrian clearances. I had a blast. and the short walk to the mall was brilliant. No bad curb approaches, nothing. Petunia and I worked together like a smooth seasoned team. It was a total contrast tot he day before. We had a couple clearance errors in a store with aisles pressed too close together, but other than that it was perfect.

 

In the mall, I stopped a a little place called Moonstruck chocolates, an Oregon chocolate company. they actually had little Labradors made of milk chocolate. I had to buy some, and I got half a dozen. I’m sharing with my classmates. Then I stopped at a store called made in Oregon to find a charm for my bracelet. I got a rose, since that represents Oregon.

 

In the afternoon, we did several different things. I learned a little campus orientation but I know I’m never going to work that route. The daily workouts are already enough. We ended that route doing omverheads. It isn’t natural for a dog to look up, over their heads, so teaching them to handle overhead obstacles that could cause problems for their handler is a lot about patterning. Fortunately I’m short enough that I go under most overheads.

 

And after that, I finally got to do clicker with Petunia. and wow, she loved it! since she isn’t very food motivated, I didn’t expect her to be thrilled with it, but damn she had a blast. He was into it, smilling, wagging, doing play bows. It was so much fun for us both.

 

That was about it for the day. I rested all evening.

 

Today is our day off. I’m doing laundry and have company coming this afternoon. No work or anything else. and the break feels very good. Starting tomorrow, our work will be more customized to try to reflect what we have in our home enbironments.

day 6, difficult days

02 Friday May 2014

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Any guide dog handler or trainer will know that days like this come along, indeed must come along, as part of the becoming a team process. But as much as you might know that in your head, it is still sometimes discouraging.

 

We had a lot of trouble on our routes today. Poor curb approaches, distractions, me giving wrong cues, her not stepping out and losing confidence. It was hard, though a necessary and important part of it all.

 

We did the same Portland route today. Petunia’s curb approaches were not the best. sometimes she’d walk right up to it,a nd other times, she’d stop quite a ways away from where she should be. My instructor also had to get on me a few times for talking to Petunia too much. I’m the sort who like to praise and encourage my dog, so I’m saying things like, “atta girl. come on, all the way …” and so on. But I needed to let her focus on her work and getting to the edge. It’s such a change from how I’ve handled my dogs all these ears and it’s a very hard habit to break. I felt like I must be giving her all the wrong messages and cues and input.

 

But we eventually made it to the coffee shop where again I sat and had a latte with Debbie, the nurse.

 

After lunch, April asked me what I want to do for m secondary destination route. Did I want to continue going tot he coffeeshop, or did I want to do something else? After tomorrow, we will start customizing our work, so it is concentrating on the things we need. But we all have to have some kind of destination route, so we are still building a solid foundation with the fundamentals. Naturally, I picked the coffeeshop.

 

This afternoon was the hardest workout yet. Portland was very busy, tons of people out, distractions everywhere. We were on a tight schedule so shortened the usual route, and yet we dealt with at least six or seven distractions.

 

People cutting in front of us at the curb so Petunia couldn’t make her approach.

Young child with father. have I mentioned she loves kids?

Homeless person and shopping cart.

class of thirty third grade students walking across the sidewalk in front of us and then crossing the street.

Barking dog in car.

People kneeling on sidewalk.

 

I think there were more.

 

Plus, Petunia’s curb approaches pre and post street crossing were iffy. We had to rework two things that I remember. Rework means that if the mistake is important enough, you retrace your steps and do it again. Until you and the dog get it right. Poor golden girl was losing a bit of confidence as the route went on. We stopped a few times, just for me to hug her and praise her, to try to get her feeling more happy.  On my part, I had to work on sounding more excited and silly when she did good things. Since she doesn’t care much for food rewards, she needs that to help keep her motivated and feeling confident. She depends on my as much as I depend on her. We’re a team, and if one team member isn’t getting what she needs it can cause problems.

 

But having said all that, as the route wet on, she improved, her confidence grew, her tail was out and wagging and her pace and pull intot he harness picked up. and I was able to get back into my stride and really give her that upbeat happy silly verbal stuff she needs. So though it was a rough workout I many ways, we got through it and got through it well by the end.

 

Afterwards, we came back to campus to do some clicker training. I did this with Juno, april, and we ran out of time before I could try it with Petunia. Since clicker involves much food reward, click and feed, click and feed, we’re not certain she will go for it anyway. Clicker is used to mark an action, finding a chair, finding a door, a pole with a walk button, things like that.

 

After the human dinner, we had a meeting about ear cleaning and teeth brushing, all familiar to me. Then I took her  out on our patio and palyed with er a little. She had fun and so did I. I felt like she needed that, needed to know that she can have fun with me as well as working with me.

 

Tomorrow, most of the class will do escalators. since I don’t do them, I’ll work a route in the mall. I’m hoping to find a place to get a charm for my bracelet to commemorate my time here in Oregon. In the afternoon, we’ll do a variety of tings, including goal meetings with our instructor, to discuss our individual plans for the rest of class.

 

And that’s that for today.

day six, a little different day

02 Friday May 2014

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Yesterday we went back yo downtown Portland. I went out first and worked to a coffee shop. We had a rough start to the route. We had distractions ont he first corner or two, and that meant a bit of difficulty getting Petunia to focus and pay attention to what she should be doing. ugh. But once that was handled, we had a nice route to the coffeeshop. We’re having a little trouble with curb approaches, either she’s quite hesitant and stops well before the actual downcurb, or she’s run them a little. So we eed to work a bit on that still.

 

The instructors gave me the option of hanging out in the coffeeshop while they took my team mate out on his route. each instructor has two students and the supervisor works with everyone. So, yeah, no argument from me. I was all up for hanging at a coffeeshop. I had a lovely latte and talked with the nurse the whole time.

 

Once back at the Portland lounge, or center as they call it. I hung out, ate lunch and got to meet the new CEO. She seems nice but we didn[t get to chat. Pat Glines was escorting her, so he sat at my lunch table and kept us all entertained with his goofiness. He was one of Bianca’s trainers so it was nice to catch up with him.

 

We did a short route to the coffee shop again and then back tot he van to come back to campus Yesterday was May Day of course, and there are often protests on that day so we got out of Dodge early! yeah, Portland, for those who don’t get the reference to dodge.

 

Back on campus we had a session of putting booties and head collars on our dogs. For those who want to use escalators, booties are mandatory. Dogs feet can get caught and seriously injured on escalators. I don’t use escalators as I’m pretty scared of them. But the booties are also good for extreme hot or cold weather. Petunia put up with my clumsy efforts putting on the booties. what a champ! she tolerated the head collar too but didn’t seem to like it much and kept rubbing her face on my leg to try to get the darn thing off. But the head collar can be an easier gentle way to help keep the dog focused around distractions, so I’m sure they’re gonna have me work her in it probably today.

 

My stomach was up to its old tricks the last few days, so I haven’t been eating much. My dinner last night tasted so good, but I knew if I put more in my stomach the problem would just get worse so I didn’t eat. then the chef and then the nurse came to my room to ask if I was ok or wanted something else. but really all I wanted to do was sleep. I slept between dinner and relieving and then went right to bed. We are now relieving our dogs ourtside our rooms.

 

Anyway, today we are back to Portland with another walk tot he coffee shop and then back to campus I think to start clicker training. Fun day ahead and definitely another latte in my immediate future!

Again, please excuse mistakes. the touch pad still won’t stay off and my arms are at a horrible angle trying to type, so it’s very uncomfortable.

 

 

day 5, a brief recap

01 Thursday May 2014

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Just wanted to talk a little aobut our workouts yesterday. It was a destination route, so something we can do and give the dogs a place to go. I don’t remember the route yet because I’ve been concentrating so hard on learning Petunia’s moves and guiding style. Every guide dog is different, different gait, different pace, pull, different way they learn or react to input from the handler. It’s a learning experience every time, just as with any new relationship.

 

So yesterday, most of the mistakes were mine, just learning to follow her as she tries to move me right or left to get around obstacles and handle tight places as we go.

 

We were also teaching her how to handle crossings with actual curbs. Normally, you tell a guide dog forward and as they ste into the street so do you, once you feel that forward motion. This works well for me on flat or wheel chair ramp approaches, but for actual curbs, we’re teaching her to step off the curb and then hold till I get down. so it’s forward, wait, okay forward. She’s a dream dog, she’s picking it up so fast. I’m incredibly proud of her.

 

The schedule is really killing me. I fell asleep on my bed after dinner and after the final relieving ai crashed hard. I worry that I won’t be able to handle it. I’m stubborn and I keep pushing myself, though sometimes I want to say, let me just rest. lol. But the cool thing is that once I’m out there working with my girl, I feel much better. Walking with your guide dog is fun. It’s freeing and beautiful. It makes me feel proud and confident and alive as nothing else does. But at the same time, walking on the hard dorm floors and walking on the hard sidewalks and streets is killing my joints and my arthritis. My stomach hurts like crazy so it’s nearly impossible to eat or drink anything. I had hoped that issue would not come back while I was here.

 

The instructors are concerned about what will happen when I get home. They really want someone to work with me for a couple days or something to help Petunia and I get oriented and acclimated to home, but apparently there isn’t any available instructor. I’d like the assistance too,  so we can get right out there and establish good work and routes at home. Oh well. we’ll manage somehow.

 

So, today, we’re off to Portland again. I’m tired and not feeling the best, so keep me in your thoughts and prayers.

 

 

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